20111222 follow me 226 Marriage Economy :’I Couldn’t Afford TO Get Divorced’

julius333 发表于 2011-12-22 13:53
As unemployment rises, the divorce rate goes down, this is just coz "I couldn't afford to get divorc ...

good view

一刃青霜 发表于 2011-12-22 21:29
I always keep thinking that "what's marriage? Why we human beings would get married compared with an ...

Suppose once he married her, at that time he had a very good job and he could support the whole family. He often bought presents for her. But one day, he was laid off. He was so disappointed and told his wife all about this and looking for jobs but couldn't find one yet. His wife told him,"Hey, don't worry, it's OK, everything is OK." She still did housework in the family and didn't let him touch anything. He still paid everthing for the family. He began to worry about the income, and told her about  his worries. She smiled," Honey, don't worry, it's ok, everything is ok." He didn't know what to say. She had a job, but not make much money as he once before. But obviously she didn't want to pay anything and was so willing to do houseworks. One day, he was in an uncontrollable rage and shouted at her. She still murmured,"Honey, I love you, it's ok, everything is ok." My God!...

whachel1976 发表于 2011-12-22 21:58
Suppose once he married her, at that time he had a very good job and he could support the whole  ...

my god..hope your her just exist in suppose...

As a single, one for the inportant my criterion to choose the beloved is she who to be economically independent in case there to be some uncertainties that she will have a life by herself.
From the article,the saying flashed my mind that the economic is the base of the superstruture.

也许是因为我年轻气盛，也许是我在感情的道路上还是个新新新手，我不知轻重，不知缓急，幼稚地发表以下言论：
Firstly, I want to say that I still believe in true love.
之前我有看过一篇文章，说没有面包的爱情是不会幸福的。确实在现实生活中有很多爱情是要建立在一定的基础条件上。（也许就是某个人说的，爱情要建立在硬件条件上或是一定的利益追求上）对于这一点我不可否认，婚姻确实会在纯洁的感情基础上掺杂着很多复杂的因素。但是，一份感情只不过是你情我愿地走在一起，手拉着手，走着走着，觉得彼此都适合自己的时候就用一纸婚约约下永远的承诺。而在婚姻中，总是会因为各种因素让这份纯洁的情感变得虚渺，但是只要有一颗坚定的心，我相信一种永恒，一种守候。
经济学确实无处不在，但如果连情感都用利益来修饰，你不觉得这个世界就会变得很苍白吗？！也许时候简单地去想一件事情，你也许会少死去很多脑细胞。

But from the prospective of economics(I did'n quite understand economics), it makes sense the relationship between the unemployment rate, violence, divorce, even people's satisfaction of their living.

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