如何对待离婚女孩？

自作孽~~~人家有老公的人，你还跟她暧昧？现在出事了，你得负责~~~

不爱，就不要碰了。直接说清楚，长痛不如短痛。

Enthuse 发表于 2010-11-13 00:27

syw99 发表于 2010-11-13 00:01
我一女同事，23岁，结婚三年，小孩三岁，她刚来单位的时候，就曾经跟我讲过她与她老公之间感情不好，想要离婚。之后因为工作上经常在一起，我们之间发生了几次暧昧关系。前几天她老公回来，因为她不愿意和老公住一块，被老公打了一巴掌，她一气之下就回家去了，说是回去离婚诉讼，铁了心要跟她老公离婚。回去之后，她经常给我打电话，言语暧昧，她也毫不顾忌地说她喜欢上了我，还因为我不经意间说她很随便而委屈地哭了，她现在问我到底喜不喜欢她，要给她肯定的回答。现在我是很苦恼，毕竟我们之间发生了几次暧昧，说没丝毫感情也没人信，但是想想以后，因为她带有小孩，我还没结婚，我家里肯定是不同意的了，这样子毕竟也没什么好结果，但是现在又怕讲实话伤害到她，真是左右为难，各位说我该怎么办啊？

to be a good man, you should take responsibility.

It is nothing about the responsibility. They are just having a very very tiny affair , as he said below, he just flipped her the bird, no sex is involved.

This situation is complicated. Whether moving ahead or do nothing can be proved to be insane for you.

If you marry this woman, this would affect your following life materially; If you choose to do nothing, you may suffer mentally.

So, good luck. Boyo.

楼主估计在挖坑吧

Fisher2001 发表于 2010-11-14 00:18

Enthuse 发表于 2010-11-13 00:27

syw99 发表于 2010-11-13 00:01
我一女同事，23岁，结婚三年，小孩三岁，她刚来单位的时候，就曾经跟我讲过她与她老公之间感情不好，想要离婚。之后因为工作上经常在一起，我们之间发生了几次暧昧关系。前几天她老公回来，因为她不愿意和老公住一块，被老公打了一巴掌，她一气之下就回家去了，说是回去离婚诉讼，铁了心要跟她老公离婚。回去之后，她经常给我打电话，言语暧昧，她也毫不顾忌地说她喜欢上了我，还因为我不经意间说她很随便而委屈地哭了，她现在问我到底喜不喜欢她，要给她肯定的回答。现在我是很苦恼，毕竟我们之间发生了几次暧昧，说没丝毫感情也没人信，但是想想以后，因为她带有小孩，我还没结婚，我家里肯定是不同意的了，这样子毕竟也没什么好结果，但是现在又怕讲实话伤害到她，真是左右为难，各位说我该怎么办啊？

to be a good man, you should take responsibility.

It is nothing about the responsibility. They are just having a very very tiny affair , as he said below, he just flipped her the bird, no sex is involved.

This situation is complicated. Whether moving ahead or do nothing can be proved to be insane for you.

If you marry this woman, this would affect your following life materially; If you choose to do nothing, you may suffer mentally.

So, good luck. Boyo.

ur chinese understanding is off:

我们之间发生了几次暧昧关系 != he just flipped her the bird