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Here’s the standard line on men: We’re simple, straightforward, limited—and usually perfectly happy to leave it there. Why? Because it keeps your expectations of us low. But here’s the single biggest thing women don’t get about men: Masculinity is a complicated performance we agree to in order to be seen as men. Unfortunately, that performance is more designed to conceal than reveal us. For instance, it’s easier and more “masculine” for us to talk about the great sex we had rather than describe the great conversation afterward. So, a woman ends up knowing the male script, but not the man. Breaking character, then, I give you (in random order) 10 things he wishes you knew about him.
1. Even Men Like Compliments Every Once in a While
2. We Are Brutally Honest Because We Care
3. You Should Appreciate Our Reliability
4. Love Means Never Having to Be Attached at the Hip
5. We Respect You as Females—and Love What Makes You Women
6. Be the Boss in the Bedroom
7. Our First Commitment Is to Ourselves
8. For Us, Seeing Is Believing
9. We May Lose Small Battles, but Always Remember the Wars We’ve Won
10. Fathers Are Just as Important as Mothers
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