＜SCRIPT language=JavaScript＞ ＜/SCRIPT＞ Why wedding ring is an indicator of a good man? ---- A conversation between a Sociologist and an Economist Sociologist: She Economist: He …………………… He says: I think a married man should wear wedding ring. She says: Not every married man wears wedding ring. The reason may be he doesn''''''''t like having something crossing the finger. He says: But I think the ring is an indicator of a good man. She says: Not necessarily. He says: That is a theory due to me. She says: Tell me if you wish. He says: It will be a long story. She says: I am listening. He says: First, there are two kinds of male. One is man and the other is boy. He says: A boy can''''''''t wear a wedding ring as you know. She says: So boy is not man? He says: Correct! A man can be classified into two kinds, one is married and the other is not married. She says: Ok! Then what? He says: A man is not married won''''''''t wear the ring. Could he a good man? She says: Why not? He says: You can''''''''t imagine a good man is not married. That a man does not marry in a relative long time is due to many reasons. First, he can’t afford a marriage; Second, he has some physical or mental problems; Third, he has some abnormal sexual preference; And so on. Do you think he is a good man in above cases? I don’ think. Agree? She says: Maybe, this could be some of the standards of a good man. She says: I thought it''''''''s your own story! But it seems now you are talking your theory about man, right? He says: I am making a generalization. Please think like a scientist, ok? She says: Ok! He says: So let us talk about the married man. The ring is a signal to others: I am married. She says: Go on. He says: A married man but without the ring, maybe he has some purposes to hide the truth, I think. She says: I don''''''''t think the thing is so complex. Maybe for someone, it''''''''s true, but not for everyone. He says: I think it will be statistically significant if we conduct a test. He says: That is why a tradition of wedding ring can survive for such a long time. A sound theory? She says: Of course not!!!! Someone even can''''''''t afford a ring! It’s only a symbol, but without it, one still can be a good man!! He says: Your critique may be right in rural. But it is not a good reason in urban. A good man in urban can''''''''t afford a wedding ring, can you imagine that? She says: Of course! He says: How can he afford his wife? He says: A man can''''''''t afford his wife, can be a good man? She says: Although marrying a woman needs some money, but it can be a lot, and it also can be very little. The standard of a good man includes a lot of aspects. Whether wearing a ring is only a trivial one. He says: 1000hk$ or less is enough for a wedding ring, and the ring is not bread, you won’t buy it everyday. She says: Yeah, it''''''''s not bread, so why don''''''''t we spend the 1000hk$ on bread? It’s more practical. What if the 1000hk$ is your whole fortune? Without it, you can''''''''t live any more? He says: 1000hk$ will be consumed in your whole life. But, how about 1000hk$ bread? She says: If I had a husband, what I would only want is that he takes care of me carefully with his whole heart, rather than wearing a wedding ring as a symbol! He says: A symbol of loyalty, it is only a ring! She says: Loyalty is from the deep heart, not a ring! Sometimes women don''''''''t care if you wear a ring! He says: You can''''''''t imagine a man tell everybody he met "I am married." But if you see a ring, you know the truth. The ring can save transaction cost. She says: If someone has crush on you and wants to develop a relationship with you, then you just tell her that you have been married. But if nobody wants it, why do you have to say that to everybody no matter you know or not? He says: A ring may avoid this embarrass occasion. She says: It will not happen often, except you are a popular star! He says: One case can destroy whole life. In fact, I have no confidence in human’s ability of self-control. She says: And when you are married, you must have told all of your friends and everyone you know. He says: Yes, I will. But in modern society, high liquidity is ordinary and most of people won’t live in an acquaintance environment always. She says: And someone can still have some illegal relationship with others even he wears a ring! So the key is not the ring, but his heart. She says: It’s all up to you! Not the ring. He says: So it is only an indicator, not the fact. She says: Yeah, so it''''''''s not necessary for everyone. I mean EVERYONE. She says: I don''''''''t mean that somebody should or should not; it''''''''s just up to individual himself, but not a rule, nor is it definitely a standard of a good man either. He says: An indicator, I mean. But if everyone has an expectation that a good man must wear a wedding ring, every good man will wear it indeed, I think. He says: Additionally, even bad man will wear wedding ring to simulate good man. Of course, he will get it off in “proper” occasion if he wants. She says: I know, I agree, so I said that it''''''''s not necessary. He says: We are both right, ok? She says: You can say that. He says: This is the very social science. ……………………
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Why wedding ring is an indicator of a good man?---- A conversation between a Sociologist and an EconomistSociologist: SheEconomist: He……………………He says:I think a married man should wear wedding ring.She says:Not every married man wears wedding ring. The reason may be he doesn''''''''t like having something crossing the finger.He says:But I think the ring is an indicator of a good man.She says:Not necessarily.He says:That is a theory due to me.She says:Tell me if you wish.He says:It will be a long story.She says:I am listening.He says:First, there are two kinds of male. One is man and the other is boy.He says:A boy can''''''''t wear a wedding ring as you know.She says:So boy is not man?He says:Correct! A man can be classified into two kinds, one is married and the other is not married.She says:Ok! Then what?He says:A man is not married won''''''''t wear the ring. Could he a good man?She says:Why not?He says:You can''''''''t imagine a good man is not married. That a man does not marry in a relative long time is due to many reasons.First, he can’t afford a marriage;Second, he has some physical or mental problems;Third, he has some abnormal ***ual preference;And so on.Do you think he is a good man in above cases?I don’ think. Agree?She says:Maybe, this could be some of the standards of a good man. She says:I thought it''''''''s your own story! But it seems now you are talking your theory about man, right?He says:I am making a generalization. Please think like a scientist, ok?She says:Ok!He says:So let us talk about the married man. The ring is a signal to others: I am married.She says:Go on.He says:A married man but without the ring, maybe he has some purposes to hide the truth, I think.She says:I don''''''''t think the thing is so complex. Maybe for someone, it''''''''s true, but not for everyone.He says:I think it will be statistically significant if we conduct a test.He says:That is why a tradition of wedding ring can survive for such a long time. A sound theory?She says:Of course not!!!! Someone even can''''''''t afford a ring! It’s only a symbol, but without it, one still can be a good man!!He says:Your critique may be right in rural. But it is not a good reason in urban. A good man in urban can''''''''t afford a wedding ring, can you imagine that?She says:Of course!He says:How can he afford his wife?He says:A man can''''''''t afford his wife, can be a good man?She says:Although marrying a woman needs some money, but it can be a lot, and it also can be very little. The standard of a good man includes a lot of aspects. Whether wearing a ring is only a trivial one.He says:1000hk$ or less is enough for a wedding ring, and the ring is not bread, you won’t buy it everyday.She says:Yeah, it''''''''s not bread, so why don''''''''t we spend the 1000hk$ on bread? It’s more practical. What if the 1000hk$ is your whole fortune? Without it, you can''''''''t live any more?He says:1000hk$ will be consumed in your whole life. But, how about 1000hk$ bread?She says:If I had a husband, what I would only want is that he takes care of me carefully with his whole heart, rather than wearing a wedding ring as a symbol!He says:A symbol of loyalty, it is only a ring!She says:Loyalty is from the deep heart, not a ring! Sometimes women don''''''''t care if you wear a ring!He says:You can''''''''t imagine a man tell everybody he met "I am married." But if you see a ring, you know the truth. The ring can save transaction cost.She says:If someone has crush on you and wants to develop a relationship with you, then you just tell her that you have been married. But if nobody wants it, why do you have to say that to everybody no matter you know or not?He says:A ring may avoid this embarrass occasion.She says:It will not happen often, except you are a popular star!He says:One case can destroy whole life. In fact, I have no confidence in human’s ability of self-control.She says:And when you are married, you must have told all of your friends and everyone you know.He says:Yes, I will. But in modern society, high liquidity is ordinary and most of people won’t live in an acquaintance environment always.She says:And someone can still have some illegal relationship with others even he wears a ring! So the key is not the ring, but his heart.She says:It’s all up to you! Not the ring.He says:So it is only an indicator, not the fact.She says:Yeah, so it''''''''s not necessary for everyone. I mean EVERYONE.She says:I don''''''''t mean that somebody should or should not; it''''''''s just up to individual himself, but not a rule, nor is it definitely a standard of a good man either.He says:An indicator, I mean. But if everyone has an expectation that a good man must wear a wedding ring, every good man will wear it indeed, I think.He says:Additionally, even bad man will wear wedding ring to simulate good man. Of course, he will get it off in “proper” occasion if he wants.She says:I know, I agree, so I said that it''''''''s not necessary.He says:We are both right, ok?She says:You can say that.He says:This is the very social science.……………………
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